Happy 3rd Birthday to my little girl!

I just can't believe it. Our little girl is now 3 years old. Today is a big day! She turns 3 AND it's also her 1st day of preschool. Happy Birthday Isabella dear!!! We love you so very much!!!

California...UGH

So I was reading Sam Blakelee's (33rd District Assemblyman) newsletter email and was reading one of the articles in this newsletter. It sparked some concerns regarding the California budget and it bugs me to no end how bad our government really is. So I sent him an email and we'll see if we get one of those automatic responses. haha

In response to "Early Release of Prisoners not a Safe Solution" - California's problems could be easily solved if criminals were treated as that...CRIMINALS. They shouldn't have the same rights as regular citizens. Committing a crime and being found guilty for them ensures that those rights be taken away. But are they? No they are not. Instead they are rewarded with fully accessible libraries and education, cable television, exercise equipment, and other benefits that should not be given to those who CHOSE not to follow the laws of the state (and the country). When our founders stated that all men be created equal and be given the freedoms (of speech, the right to bear arms, etc), I highly doubt they meant that people were free to do whatever they want whenever they want without any regards to the laws. If California and other governing states just followed what Sheriff Joe Arpaio did in Arizona, the budget crisis could easily be solved. Millions upon millions of dollars are being thrown into the wrong direction, taking care of those who are hurting the economy and society, rather than towards those who are helping (education, health depts, social depts, etc). I am all for treating people with respect but I think it's a little overboard when those who chose to break the laws get treated better than those who actually pay their taxes and obey the laws. The state is in HUGE trouble. The country is in HUGE trouble. You need to start thinking about the future. Where would our kids be when there is no more money to fund the schools? They will end up on the streets, doing the things that will probably have them end up in jail. Thus, the vicious cycle continues. It's time to start thinking about what's right vs what's wrong. Put money where it matters. The US was a dominating leader in the world and is slowly losing power because of the democratic stance it has taken in the past 30 years. Remember what happened to Rome???

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Time flies!

Wow, I didn't realize it has been since Mother's Day that I last wrote in here. Has it really been that long??? Summer flew by fast and I can't believe it's almost September already!!! So much has happened this summer that I'll have to gradually add a little bit of history about what's been going on. Time flies when you're having fun!!!

Here's a little summary of our summer fun:

- Kids took swim lessons for one month straight and truly enjoyed them. They were really afraid in the beginning but now you can't take them out of the water! I will probably do the same thing again next year. A whole months is a long time but well worth it!

- Two of my Sarah's had babies this summer. Sarah (SIL) had her baby boy in June and my friend Sarah had her baby girl in July. It's been a summer filled with the new joys of parenthood for both and we are extremely lucky to be in their lives. Can't wait to watch those kids grow up over their lifetime!!!

- We took our annual family vacation to San Diego this month. We went to Sea World, Balboa Park, Belmont Park, Mission Beach, Del Mar, etc. Jeramy had to leave mid-week to go back to work but the kids and I stayed for an extra 5 days with Auntie Charmie. So all in all, it was 8 days of great fun!

- The biggest most recent news is that our dear boy Connor just started KINDERGARTEN!!! He started this past Monday and he is loving every minute of it. So far, he has come home and said "It is the best day ever!" He truly enjoys school and we hope that excitement continues. I mean, shucks, he's only got 11 more years of school left. Little does he know. HAHA

- The next biggest news is that our little girl will be starting preschool in a few weeks!!! I can't believe both kids are now in school! Isabella will be going to the same preschool Connor attended for 2 years and I am very much looking forward to a few hours to myself a week. I don't think I know what to do with myself! I am hoping Isabella will enjoy school. She will be going with her boyfriend Jax and her girl Avery. So it should be super fun for all of them!!

So much has happened this summer. I will definitely have to write a separate post for each event to give the details and show some photos.

Jeramy and I are leaving for Hawaii this coming Monday. We'll be spending the night at a hotel close to LAX since we have to be at the airport by 8:30 am on Monday. We'll be in marital bliss for one week and we cannot wait for some much-needed (and deserved) relaxation. I'm all about doing everything we can while we're there but he'd rather lay out at the beach and drink all day long. We *might* just end up doing that. LOL. The kids will be with Grandpa and Grandma all week...so good luck Grandpa and Grandma! ;)

Anyway, hope everyone is having an awesome summer so far!!! :)

Happy 5th Birthday to our little guy!

Well, he's not so little anymore! That's for sure. It's amazing how fast time really flies. It's unbelievable that we have a 5-year old boy whose going to be in Kindergarten! I never thought this day would come. Happy Birthday to you dear Connor!!! We love you sooooooooooooo much!

I got "Mom of the Year"!

I can't believe it. I did it. I didn't think I would win. But yay! (Total joke, but funny)

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Heartbreaking...

Today, Connor came home from preschool and was very excited to show me something. I was outside tending to my roses so he kept asking me to go inside. I finally went in and he reached under the pillows on the couch.

C: Mommy, I'm so excited. I have a gift for you!
M: a gift?
C: For Mother's Day!

Out he pulls a beautiful card he made for me with a gift bag attached to it. In the bag was a lovely key chain that said "MOM" that he decorated w/ puffy paint and a lovely ribbon. I was so surprised. It's such a lovely gift! (Ofcourse, I attached it to my keys right away.)

Later on that day, we were supposed to go to Bible Study but we were all too exhausted and the kids were just DONE. I didn't want to cook dinner so I took Connor with me to get some food. But before we got our food, I went to get gas and as I'm pumping the gas, I looked at the back of the key chain and noticed that his name was spelled wrong.

My mistake...I mentioned it to him, knowing that he personally didn't write it.

M: Oh no Connor, I think someone spelled your name wrong on the keychain ("Conner")

(C breaks down crying....covers his eyes with his hands and everything!)

C: I knew you weren't going to like your gift!
M: Oh Connor, I LOVE it. I know you didn't spell your name wrong. Someone else did.

(He continues to cry and is sobbing at this point...just BREAKS MY HEART...so I end up breaking down too)

M: I'm so sorry Connor. I didn't mean to hurt your feelings. I know YOU didn't spell your name wrong. I LOVE IT. I love everything you make for me. Really...

(At this point, I'm pleading with him telling him just how much I appreciate everything he does for me and I just love the gift...etc)

C: They were supposed to copy my name and they didn't do it right. Hmph.
M: That's OK, we can fix it if you want.
C: Ooooh, I have a good idea! We can just make a new one.

Anyway, I was sooooooooooooo sad to see that I hurt my son's feelings. Granted, he was tired as hell and he becomes really sensitive & emotional when he's overtired. But still, that just broke my heart. I really need to pay more attention to the things I say. I'm just so afraid I'm not raising my kids right. :( I forget that kids take everything literally and they take things to heart so easily (well as a matter of a fact, adults do too sometimes).

I just wanted to say I'm sorry Connor for "criticizing" your lovely gift. It's perfect the way it is. I love you!

I want to win!

I spent some time today reading some blogs and there's a lot of giveaways this week. I get extra entries for blogging about them so here goes!

1) I recently just found this blog SavingWithSteph and I've found some awesome deals here. She has a $20 Walgreens GC giveaway this week and I wanna win! Walgreens has some awesome deals when you pair up coupons with Easy Saver Rebates. Just last week, I got 3 rebates for $13 total and so I used the rebates for Midol and StrapPerfect.

2) On DealSeekingMom, there's currently a giveaway for a set of Wonder Bumpers. I wanna win this for my sister-in-law!

3) On PennyPinchingParent, they're having a RC John Deere XUV Gator giveaway and I'd love to win one for the kiddos.

Spring Cleaning Party

So I've been trying so hard to clean my house, one room at a time. The areas I clean stays clean for about an hour before it becomes a wreck again (I love my kids, but man oh man!). I went through a deep-clean stage of my spring cleaning 2 weeks ago and then we went away for a few days on a mini vaca and it was sooooooooooo nice to come to a nice, clean & organized home. Now I'm back to where I started and it's just so exhausting.

I've managed to clean 1-2 rooms a day and mind you, we only have less than 1200 sq ft of space. But with 2 kids running amuck, it feels like it's 3000 sq ft filled with crap! So, I'm joining SimpleMom's "Spring Cleaning Party" (SCP) next week and I'm hoping this will help me declutter my home. I've actually gotten pretty good about getting rid of a TON of stuff (I can be such a pack rat sometimes).

But since we're having a yard sale in a couple weeks, I want to get rid of as much stuff as possible. I'm already in the process of selling stuff on Craigslist so I'm feeling good about getting my spring cleaning started (ok, I must admit, I started in late Feb!). Plus I actually got the kids room AND the office organized (moved a huge oak bunk bed, bookcases, and a tall dresser all by myself and everything!) a couple weeks ago so that was a great jump start to all this.

The only downside about this SCP is that I had to buy a book. But it's only $7 and I consider it an investment. SimpleMom has been pretty right on with everything she's blogged about so I trust her methods will work (or else I'm gonna be slightly disappointed with having to spend that $7!).

So here's the schedule...
Here’s the Spring Cleaning Party schedule:

* Monday, May 4 - a clean sweep
* Tuesday, May 5 - the living room, part one
* Wednesday, May 6 - the living room, part two
* Thursday, May 7 - the kitchen, part one
* Friday, May 8 - the kitchen, part two
* Monday, May 11 - the bathrooms
* Tuesday, May 12 - the kids’ rooms, part one
* Wednesday, May 13 - the kids’ rooms, part two
* Thursday, May 14 - the master bedroom
* Friday, May 15 - the front entry

I am looking forward to getting started on Monday. I love lists and this just adds to my OCD need of list-making so I'm happy. I know, I'm weird like that...

Mini Vacations...

are awesome but exhausting. A vacation is rarely ever a "vacation" since you spend so much of your time eating out, doing activities and checking out everything that's available. It's all fun until you come home and realize you actually have to cook meals again, do laundry, pay bills, etc. But yes, it's all worth it in the end.

We are lucky enough that my hubby works only 3-4 days a week. Therefore, he gets 3-4 days off a week as well. Though he works 12 long hours per day on the days he works, it enables us to spend more time together and go on mini vacations whenever we can.

In the last 6 months alone, we've taken at least one 4-5 day mini vacation each month. Here are the photos from each one:

TO BE POSTED SOON

Fun-filled Easter weekend!

We definitely had one fun-filled weekend this Easter. Lots of egg-hunting activities, moments of chocolate bliss and fun with family & friends. It was a lot of fun but mommy is TIRED! :)

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Happy Easter!

We celebrated Easter at Aunt Carol's this weekend. During our Easter dinner, Maren & Adam (cousins) wouldn't eat their food and started telling Knock-Knock jokes like the night prior...

Aunt Carol: No Knock-Knock jokes until after dinner. Eat your food first.

Maren: But I don't want to eat.

Aunt Carol: Well you should. Easter is about eating.

Connor: And...Easter is about eggs!

Everyone: Yes Connor, you're right.

Connor: But really, Easter is about Jesus!

I was very proud of my little son...for bringing up a very important fact. Easter (like Christmas) gets lost in today's society, being marketed as a holiday about eggs and bunnies. When in fact, it truly is about Jesus. The fact that He died on the cross to save us from our sins and He is risen! That is the true meaning of Easter. Amen.

Note: Here is a great link to teach bible verses about Easter: http://ministry-to-children.com/bible-verses-about-easter/

REVIEW: Yanni Voices

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Yanni + Voices = Good music!

Back in the 90's, my very 1st boyfriend introduced me to the world of Yanni. I thought he was weird at first, considering he was a punk rock kind of guy and didn't expect that he would ever like music like Yanni's. But surprisingly enough, I fell in love with Yanni's music.

I like the mixture of vocals with Yanni's orchestration, as it mixes the two worlds of the young and the old. (Not that I'm saying that symphonic music is only meant only for the old!) The melodies are wonderful and incredibly relaxing. The voices of these young artists definitely work well with the beautiful instrumental music.

I like "Set me Free", sounds like something you would hear on mainstream radio (similar to Dido's music). "Before the Night Ends", "The Keeper", "Never Leave the Sun" and "Kill me With your Love" are really good songs too. I can see "Our Days" being picked for a soundtrack for a movie, maybe the upcoming "New Moon" movie from the Twilight series?? "Moments Without Time" is a classic Yanni song that will relax you and helps create a serene environment. All the other songs are alright, not really my kind of music, but a great mix of different types of music overall.

Spring is in the air!

Every year, we visit the wildflowers over at Shell Creek Road off of Hwy 58. There is an overabundance of wildflowers there usually around this time of year and sure enough, there was lots of them this year! Even though there were only a few varieties of flowers, it was still a beautiful sight and we enjoyed our time there (like we usually do).

We also checked out Soda Lake, which is basically a dried up lake with calcium deposits left over. So it looks like it's white sand from far away but it's basically white mud. The kids enjoyed getting caked all over with this mud, which was not something we had planned for and definitely something I can live without, but it was so well worth seeing their smiling faces! Needless to say, it was one messy ride home. :)

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Probably the worst birthday ever…

I was really hoping I would feel better by the time Friday the 13th rolled around, but apparently not.  I’ve had the worst flu all week long (so much for the flu shot huh?) and it progressively got even worse.  With the flu, a tooth ache, headache, and stomach problems all day long, I just couldn’t enjoy it.  To top it all off, everyone else is sick too and Jeramy almost threw his back out and has been pretty much out of commission today too.  So yeah …it’s officially the worst birthday ever. 

BUT I got to spend time with my wonderful family.  That’s all that matters, right?

Happy Anniversary honey!

Today, Jeramy and I celebrated our 5-year anniversary. It was such an uneventful day due to the family being sick but at least we got to spend 2 days together beforehand. On Thursday, we headed down to Pismo and ate at Spy Glass Inn for lunch (used B1G1 coupon). What a great view, even though it was raining the whole time. Then after we headed over to Centaur Resort & Spa in Arroyo Grande, which Jeramy thought was a joke at first since the spa is located at someone's house (well a bed & breakfast really). I won a $200 Spafinder.com gift certificate from a contest not too long ago so we used that for a couple's 60-minute massage plus a 30-min facial for each of us. It was really nice. We even got to sit in a steam room for 30 mins after all was said and done. Diane (co-owner) is a super nice lady and she really made us feel comfortable. It was really neat to hear thunderstorms and rain pattering on the roof during our session. It just made it that much more memorable.

We finally checked into our hotel at San Luis Bay Inn in Avila (thanks to my loving inlaws for their present!) at 6 pm and took a much needed nap. We didn't sleep much the night before since the kids kept us up with their sickies. :( Finally at 8 pm, we headed over to Old Vienna Restaurant in Shell Beach, a really unique German restaurant that was surprisingly really nice inside with its indoor waterfall and international flags hanging from the ceilings. We were the only ones there but we didn't mind it at all since we appreciated the quiet surroundings. Being with a 4 and 2 year old all day, makes you appreciate the silence, that's for sure.

The food and service was AWESOME. I honestly can list this is one of my top 10 favorite restaurants on the Central Coast. The prices were reasonable as well which we didn't even pay full price since we had a Restaurant.com gift certificate. (We're all about saving money!)

The next morning we headed over to Zorro's Cafe in Shell Beach and had breakfast. It's a little itty bitty place, but the food was great. And ofcourse, we also had a coupon for that place so we had to try it out. It's worth trying when you have a B1G1 free coupon!

Then ofcourse we included a little shopping towards the end of our mini vaca and headed home to receive grumpy and really sick kids from Grandpa and Grandma. Boy, were they CRANKY! I'm glad we got to spend a little bit of time alone together. We are truly blessed to be able to get away at least once every week or every other week to bond. I love our time together. The best part is that we actually really enjoy each other's company and look forward to all the times we get to spend together.

I love you Jeramy! Here's to 5 years of marriage and many, many, many more years to come!

Hooked on phonics...

Well not really. But I have been hooked on reading again. I just started reading "Confessions of a Shopaholic" and it's good so far. It's funny how I can relate so much to the main character, Rebecca. I remember once upon a time when I was just as careless with money and just didn't accept my responsibilities. Like what, really, I have to pay credit cards back? haha.

I'm not saying that I'm no longer a shopaholic, but I am more aware of bargains and sales and all in between. I don't throw money around like I used to and definitely don't spend much on myself these days. But like everyone else, I still want nice things for the house, comfortable clothes for the family, delicious food on the table, so I am just much smarter with the money I do spend.

Anyway, back to the book. It's set in England so there are a lot of terms you have to get used to (like loo for restroom, bloody for damn, etc) but it's a pretty easy read. I am trying to get to the end so I can go see the movie in a couple of weeks. I am betting Isla Fisher will make a good Rebecca. She's so darn cute.

Bath time is fun!

The kids still take baths together and it's so cool seeing them play together and having fun. Some nights they end up fighting a lot more than playing but they are just as cute. They have their own spots in the bath tub (Connor's closest to the faucet) but now that they are older, they lie down together and "float" (which they think is swimming). It's really cute listening to them talk out loud when their ears are under water. How I wish this could last forever...

DO'S AND DON'TS FOR 2009

Health:
1. Drink plenty of water.
2. Eat breakfast like a king, lunch like a prince and dinner like a beggar.
3. Eat more foods that grow on trees and plants and eat less food that is manufactured in plants.
4. Live with the 3 E's -- Energy, Enthusiasm, and Empathy.
5. Make time to practice meditation, yoga, and prayer.
6. Play more games.
7. Read more books than you did in 2008.
8. Sit in silence for at least 10 minutes each day..
9. Sleep for 7 hours.
10. Take a 10-30 minutes walk every day. And while you walk, smile.

Personality:
11. Don't compare your life to others'. You have no idea what their journey is all about.
12. Don't have negative thoughts or things you cannot control. Instead invest your energy in the positive present moment.
13. Don't over do. Keep your limits.
14. Don't take yourself so seriously. No one else does.
15. Don't waste your precious energy on gossip.
16. Dream more while you are awake..
17. Envy is a waste of time. You already have all you need.
18. Forget issues of the past. Don't remind your partner with his/her mistakes of the past. That will ruin your resent happiness.
19. Life is too short to waste time hating anyone. Don't hate others.
20. Make peace with your past so it won't spoil the present.
21. No one is in charge of your happiness except you.
22. Realize that life is a school and you are here to learn. Problems are simply part of the curriculum that appear and fade away like algebra class but the lessons you learn will last a lifetime.
23. Smile and laugh more.
24. You don't have to win every argument. Agree to disagree.

Society:
25. Call your family often.
26. Each day give something good to others.
27. Forgive everyone for everything.
28. Spend time with people over the age of 70 & under the age of 6.
29. Try to make at least three people smile each day.
30. What other people think of you is none of your business.
31. Your job won't take care of you when you are sick. Your friends will. Stay in touch.

Life:
32. Do the right thing!
33. Get rid of anything that isn't useful, beautiful or joyful.
34. GOD heals everything.
35. However good or bad a situation is, it will change.
36. No matter how you feel, get up, dress up and show up.
37. The best is yet to come.
38. When you awake alive in the morning, thank GOD for it.
39. Your Inner most is always happy. So, be happy.

Last but not the least:
40. Share this with everyone you care about.

Look what's happening for my birthday!

Ugh, back to reality...

So today I woke up and realized we were back in school again. The kids and I take a Mommy and Me class on Monday mornings and we were about to miss it, if I hadn't remembered like 20 mins before class started (at 9 am). I hate having to wake up, get ready and actually be somewhere before 10 am. I might be a stay at home, but I still enjoy vacation.

Now I'm gonna start working on organizing the house. It's fun being able to do whatever I please to our home. It is just so time-consuming and I'd much rather hop on the computer and rampage through the web. But blah, back to reality. Back to waking up and actually having to be somewhere on time. Yuck.